This is the wall I like to yell at and throw interesting stuff at from time to time.

sleeve:

late night breakdowns are my speciality

I am not a mom but I love my mom friends. I love seeing pics of their children, I love the craft and cooking things they post for other moms, I love the articles they post about children behavior/development, I love the stories they post about their children, because although I am not a mom, I hope to be one and being able to watch how other people go about raising their children is like watching a preview into parenthood. I learn a lot from my mom friends and I just want them to know I appreciate them!

prospect-euphoria:

sandflake:

I dearly wish that people would view their bodies as they view flowers…

Veins everywhere?

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gorgeous~

Skin patches? Birthmarks?

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hella rad~

Scars? Stretch marks?

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beautiful~

Freckles? Moles? Acne scars?

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heckie yeah~

Large? Curvy?

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lovely~

Small? Thin?

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charming~

Missing a few pieces?

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handsome as ever~

Feel like you just look weird?

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you’re fantastic looking~

THIS is the best post ever. 

hopeyoufall:

eldrikaethervial:

My lady got in a car accident today and while she’s fine, the car is a total loss. I’m not one to beg for help, but I have to admit those are harsh time, as shit happen faster than my income can fix it, despite my dayjob AND all my wonderful, generous commissioners…

The lady was trying hard to find a job, but with the car gone, even if she gets a call back now she’s fucked. So I’m reblogging this again, because any donation is very welcome. Even if you can’t give a penny, reblogging it can increase the visibility of our cause and our chances of getting somewhere.

I’ll be a bit personal here cause I need to let some steam out, and I gotta say when you’re working 7 days a week at two jobs for months and then shit like that happen, reducing all your efforts to dust, it just fucking hurt inside! Just thinking about it my shoulder feel heavier from the weight of it all. But I’ll keep it up because my stubbornness is both my best quality and my worst flaw =P


Still, this is quite depressing for both me and her, I just hope things will finally get better at some point. Thank you for your time, and a sincere thank you to everyone who already donated or plan to donate.

So this happened today… Now more than ever I need any bit of help we can get. 

theconcealedweapon:

apersnicketylemon:

meldorable:

notthedeeproads:

lorentztransformation:

horsefeathersandhedgepigs:

Basic math that I knocked out last night:

$820 per month for rent (apartments in Austin can be found as low as $665)
+
$290 per month…
perspicious:

WHAT YOU SHOULD DO:    Stay with us and keep calm.The last thing we need when we’re panicking, is to have someone else panicking with us.
Offer medicine if we usually take it during an attack.You might have to ask whether or not we take medicine- heck, some might not; but please, ask. It really helps.
Move us to a quiet place.We need time to think, to breathe. Being surrounded by people isn’t going to help.
Don’t make assumptions about what we need. Ask.We’ll tell you what we need. Sometimes; you may have to ask- but never assume.
Speak to us in short, simple sentences.
Be predictable. Avoid surprises.
Help slow our breathing by breathing us or by counting slowly to 10.As odd as it sounds, it works.


WHAT YOU SHOULDN’T DO:1. Say, “You have nothing to be panicked about.”We know. Weknow. We know. And because we know we have nothing to be panicked about, we panic even more. When I realize that my anxiety is unfounded, I panic even more because then I feel like I’m not in touch with reality. It’s unsettling. Scary.Most of the time, a panic attack is irrational. Sometimes they stem from circumstances — a certain couch triggers a bad memory or being on an airplane makes you claustrophobic or a break up causes you to flip your lid — but mostly, the reasons I’m panicking are complex, hard to articulate or simply, unknown. I could tell myself all day that I have no reason to be having a panic attack and I would still be panicking. Sometimes, because I’m a perfectionist, I become even more overwhelmed when I think my behaviour is “unacceptable” (as I often believe it is when I’m panicking). I know it’s all in my mind, but my mind can be a pretty dark and scary place when it gets going.Alternate suggestion: Say, “I understand you’re upset. It is okay. You have a right to be upset and I am here to help.”2. Say, “Calm down.”This reminds me of a MadTV sketch where Bob Newhart plays a therapist who tells his patients to simply “Stop it!” whenever they express anxiety or fear. As a sketch, it’s funny. In real life, it’s one of the worst things you can do to someone having a panic attack. When someone tells me to “stop panicking” or to “calm down,” I just think, “Oh, okay. I haven’t tried that one. Hold on, let me get outa pen and paper and jot that down, you jerk.”Instead of taking action so that they do relax, simply telling a panicking person to “calm down” or “stop it” does nothing. No-thing.Alternate suggestion: The best thing to do is to listen and support. In order to calm them down without the generalities, counting helps.3. Say, “I’m just going to leave you alone for a minute.”Being left alone while panicking makes my heart race even harder. The last thing I want is to be left by myself with my troubled brain. Many of my panic attacks spark from over-thinking and it’s helpful to have another person with me, not only for medical reasons (in case I pass out or need water) but also it’s helpful to have another person around to force me to think about something other than the noise in my head.Alternate suggestion: It sometimes helps me if the person I’m with distracts me by telling me a story or sings to me. I need to get out of my own head and think about something other than my own panic.4. Say, “You’re overreacting.”Here’s the thing: I’m not. Panic attacks might be in my head, but I’m in actual physical pain. If you’d cut open your leg, no one would be telling you you’re overreacting. It’s a common trope in mental health to diminish the feelings or experience of someone suffering from anxiety or panic because there’s no visible physical ailment and because there’s no discernible reason for the person to be having such a strong fear reaction.The worst thing you can tell someone who is panicking is that they are overreacting.Alternate suggestion: Treat a panic attack like any other medical emergency. Listen to what the person is telling you. Get them water if they need it. It helps me if someone rubs my back a little. If you’re in over your head, don’t hesitate to call 911 (or whatever the emergency services number is where you are). But please, take the person seriously. Mental health deserves the same respect as physical health.

CREDIT [X]  [X]

perspicious:

WHAT YOU SHOULD DO:
    
  1. Stay with us and keep calm.
    The last thing we need when we’re panicking, is to have someone else panicking with us.

  2. Offer medicine if we usually take it during an attack.
    You might have to ask whether or not we take medicine- heck, some might not; but please, ask. It really helps.

  3. Move us to a quiet place.
    We need time to think, to breathe. Being surrounded by people isn’t going to help.

  4. Don’t make assumptions about what we need. Ask.
    We’ll tell you what we need. Sometimes; you may have to ask- but never assume.

  5. Speak to us in short, simple sentences.

  6. Be predictable. Avoid surprises.

  7. Help slow our breathing by breathing us or by counting slowly to 10.
    As odd as it sounds, it works.
WHAT YOU SHOULDN’T DO:

1. Say, “You have nothing to be panicked about.”
We know. Weknow. We know. And because we know we have nothing to be panicked about, we panic even more. When I realize that my anxiety is unfounded, I panic even more because then I feel like I’m not in touch with reality. It’s unsettling. Scary.

Most of the time, a panic attack is irrational. Sometimes they stem from circumstances — a certain couch triggers a bad memory or being on an airplane makes you claustrophobic or a break up causes you to flip your lid — but mostly, the reasons I’m panicking are complex, hard to articulate or simply, unknown. I could tell myself all day that I have no reason to be having a panic attack and I would still be panicking. Sometimes, because I’m a perfectionist, I become even more overwhelmed when I think my behaviour is “unacceptable” (as I often believe it is when I’m panicking). I know it’s all in my mind, but my mind can be a pretty dark and scary place when it gets going.

Alternate suggestion: Say, “I understand you’re upset. It is okay. You have a right to be upset and I am here to help.”


2. Say, “Calm down.”
This reminds me of a MadTV sketch where Bob Newhart plays a therapist who tells his patients to simply “Stop it!” whenever they express anxiety or fear. As a sketch, it’s funny. In real life, it’s one of the worst things you can do to someone having a panic attack. When someone tells me to “stop panicking” or to “calm down,” I just think, “Oh, okay. I haven’t tried that one. Hold on, let me get outa pen and paper and jot that down, you jerk.

Instead of taking action so that they do relax, simply telling a panicking person to “calm down” or “stop it” does nothing. No-thing.

Alternate suggestion: The best thing to do is to listen and support. In order to calm them down without the generalities, counting helps.


3. Say, “I’m just going to leave you alone for a minute.”
Being left alone while panicking makes my heart race even harder. The last thing I want is to be left by myself with my troubled brain. Many of my panic attacks spark from over-thinking and it’s helpful to have another person with me, not only for medical reasons (in case I pass out or need water) but also it’s helpful to have another person around to force me to think about something other than the noise in my head.

Alternate suggestion: It sometimes helps me if the person I’m with distracts me by telling me a story or sings to me. I need to get out of my own head and think about something other than my own panic.


4. Say, “You’re overreacting.”
Here’s the thing: I’m not. Panic attacks might be in my head, but I’m in actual physical pain. If you’d cut open your leg, no one would be telling you you’re overreacting. It’s a common trope in mental health to diminish the feelings or experience of someone suffering from anxiety or panic because there’s no visible physical ailment and because there’s no discernible reason for the person to be having such a strong fear reaction.

The worst thing you can tell someone who is panicking is that they are overreacting.

Alternate suggestion: Treat a panic attack like any other medical emergency. Listen to what the person is telling you. Get them water if they need it. It helps me if someone rubs my back a little. If you’re in over your head, don’t hesitate to call 911 (or whatever the emergency services number is where you are). But please, take the person seriously. Mental health deserves the same respect as physical health.

CREDIT [X]  [X]

hopeyoufall:

eldrikaethervial:

My lady got in a car accident today and while she’s fine, the car is a total loss. I’m not one to beg for help, but I have to admit those are harsh time, as shit happen faster than my income can fix it, despite my dayjob AND all my wonderful, generous commissioners…

The lady was trying hard to find a job, but with the car gone, even if she gets a call back now she’s fucked. So I’m reblogging this again, because any donation is very welcome. Even if you can’t give a penny, reblogging it can increase the visibility of our cause and our chances of getting somewhere.

I’ll be a bit personal here cause I need to let some steam out, and I gotta say when you’re working 7 days a week at two jobs for months and then shit like that happen, reducing all your efforts to dust, it just fucking hurt inside! Just thinking about it my shoulder feel heavier from the weight of it all. But I’ll keep it up because my stubbornness is both my best quality and my worst flaw =P


Still, this is quite depressing for both me and her, I just hope things will finally get better at some point. Thank you for your time, and a sincere thank you to everyone who already donated or plan to donate.

So this happened today… Now more than ever I need any bit of help we can get. 

metrogoon:

popunklouis:

mrsmoonbear-senpai:

popunklouis:

remember that rumor we all believed in middle school that marilyn manson got the bottom half of his ribcage removed so he could blow himself??

What the fuck kinda middle school did you go to

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word I deadass believed that

awkward-lee:

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Blaine proposing to Disney Princesses plus Gaston

(Source: fashionaryhand)

youngblackandvegan:

zombiekunoichi:

elizabitchtaylor:

They look like they’re in a heist movie with Rihanna as the tough-as-nails leader/master thief and Lupita as the genius computer hacker



!!!!! So here for this!

youngblackandvegan:

zombiekunoichi:

elizabitchtaylor:

They look like they’re in a heist movie with Rihanna as the tough-as-nails leader/master thief and Lupita as the genius computer hacker

!!!!! So here for this!

(Source: fuckyeahrihanna)

eldrikaethervial:

My lady got in a car accident today and while she’s fine, the car is a total loss. I’m not one to beg for help, but I have to admit those are harsh time, as shit happen faster than my income can fix it, despite my dayjob AND all my wonderful, generous commissioners…

The lady was trying hard to find a job, but with the car gone, even if she gets a call back now she’s fucked. So I’m reblogging this again, because any donation is very welcome. Even if you can’t give a penny, reblogging it can increase the visibility of our cause and our chances of getting somewhere.

I’ll be a bit personal here cause I need to let some steam out, and I gotta say when you’re working 7 days a week at two jobs for months and then shit like that happen, reducing all your efforts to dust, it just fucking hurt inside! Just thinking about it my shoulder feel heavier from the weight of it all. But I’ll keep it up because my stubbornness is both my best quality and my worst flaw =P


Still, this is quite depressing for both me and her, I just hope things will finally get better at some point. Thank you for your time, and a sincere thank you to everyone who already donated or plan to donate.

So this happened today… Now more than ever I need any bit of help we can get. 

(Source: hopeyoufall)

I’m so fucked….

Well on top of the quite awful week, today I got in a car accident and totaled my car. I am physically ok but mentally and emotionally I am a wreck. On top of all the finical troubles and everything else I am going threw I feel beyond hopeless. Life sure knows how to kick you in the stomach when you are already down. I don’t know what I am supposed to do anymore except cry… Which I keep doing even when I don’t want to.

(Source: s4slsmith)

kateordie:

ericscissorhands:

"Creepy girls you’re just my style, blood red lipstick you don’t smile, falling victim to your fantasy - damn, i love that you’re so creepy.”(X)

Really mad none of you sent this to me directly